Bedroom Renovation: Headboard

Today, Jason and I spent a total of 2 hours and $41.00 on a headboard that I absolutely LOVE. After a little bit of coercion and promising my wonderful husband that this would not be a complete disaster, he agreed to try it. We probably spent three times as long deciding on a fabric as we did on everything else combined (I wanted something fun that would not look too childish and Jason finally just told me to get what I liked because who cares if other people think it's childish? So I did). I could not believe how easy it was, and if I could do it then you can too!

And so here is my tutorial, complete with pictures.

Before and After

1)      1) Measure the size you want your headboard to be. If you have trouble with this, try putting painters tape on the wall to give you an idea of how it will look, then just measure the tape! Mine was three feet tall (36 inches) and 5 feet 1 inch long (61 inches) for a queen bed. It should extend to the bottom of your mattress (I’ll talk about this later).

2)      2) Measure how far off the ground you want it to be. This can be a rough estimate. Mine was about a foot from the bottom of my mattress to the floor. Add this height to the height of your headboard from step 1 (so mine was 12 inches off the floor and my headboard from 36 inches high. My 2x4s were approximately 43 inches.)

Assemble the supplies!

You will need:

*A piece of plywood or particle board  that is ¾ inch thick (I used particle board)

Price: $20.00

*Two 2x4s cut to the estimate you got in step 2.

Price: $2.00

*A Staple gun (I used half-inch staples).

Price: Free (If you don’t have one, you can buy them for about $10.)

*A mattress pad (I used a full size from Walmart. Get the egg-crate type, not the feather type.)

Price: $10.00

*Fabric of your choice (I used 2 yards and it was the perfect size.)

Price: $9.00 from Hobby Lobby

*Drill (I used 2 inch screws)

Price: Free (These can be kind of pricey but if you don’t have one or can’t borrow one, you rent them from Home Depot.)

*A small level (This isn’t 100% necessary, just makes things a little easier.)

Price: Free (You can buy them pretty cheaply at Home Depot.)

Total Price: $41.00

3)      3) Now that you have everything, congratulate yourself. You’ve done the hard part (and the long part – choosing fabric took us 3x longer than making the headboard!).

4)      4) The nice people at Home Depot cut our particle board and 2x4s for me. The first 2 cuts are free and each additional cut is $0.25. If you prefer to cut it yourself, then get your wood cut.

5)      5) Lay the board down and put your fabric on top to make sure it’s going to fit. You should have at least 3 inches on each side. Iron the fabric.

6)      6) Now move the particle board and lay the mattress pad face up on the ground.

7)      7) Lay the particle board on top of it.

8)      8) On the long side, pull the mattress pad up and stable it down about an inch from the edge. Stop 6 inches from the corner.

9)      9) Repeat step 8 on the other long side (do not do the short sides yet).

1010)   Now do one corner. For these, you want to give it a wrapped Christmas present look. I did quite a bit of trimming, and it is easiest of you staple one layer then staple another on top of it. Once this is done, staple the rest of the long side (you should have left about 6 inches unstapled in step 8 to make it easier to pull the corners).

1111)   Once you’ve stapled all four corners, staple the short sides in the same way you stapled the long sides. Trim off any extra foam. Now, your head board should look something like this:

1212)   Pick up the board and lay your fabric wrong side up. This means the part of your fabric that has the design on it should face the ground and the back side should face up.

1313)   Lay the board on top of the fabric the same way you did with the mattress pad.

1414)   On a short side, put one stable in the middle and staple across (it is okay to staple through the foam but it may be easier to staple directly onto the particle board).

1515)   On the other short side, pull the fabric as tight as you possibly can and put a staple in the middle again. While pulling the fabric as tight as possible, staple across the short side and stop 6 inches from each corner.

1616)   Now staple all four corners the same way you did with the foam.

1717)   It should look something like this:

1818)   Congratulations, the headboard part is done! Now all you need to do is attach the legs!

1919)   Take those 2x4s and hold them against your mattress and mark where the bottom of your mattress is with a pencil (the level is helpful here to make sure they’re straight).

2020)   Line that pencil line up with the bottom of one of the long sides and screw them into place. I used four screws in each one but that is not a magic number. Jason thought it would be best to be sure they wouldn’t move.

2121)   Now lift it up and admire your work! Looks good, doesn’t it? Almost done! (if you see any wrinkles, don’t worry – you can steam them out. If your fabric puckered, you can play around with it and get it straight. I’m not a perfectionist so it was good enough for me!)

2222)   Put the 2x4s flat against the wall behind your bed.  Push the mattress against the head board so the headboard is sandwiched between the mattress and the wall. And you’re done! 

A couple notes…

You can staple the mattress pad and the fabric at the same time. However, I did them separately so that I can take out the staples that are holding the fabric on and add a new one if I get bored of this one. I love versatility.

You can screw the 2x4s in before you upholster it. However, I intentionally did it this way so that I can take them off when I move. Also, this way is easier to re-upholster later.

You can add scotchguard to make sure it doesn’t get stained.

You want to make sure you have at least 3 inches of fabric on each side because if you  pull it too tightly then the fabric can tear. 

There are a lot of things you can use instead of a mattress pad. This made mine really soft. Way softer than I would have thought. But, you can also use batting, carpet padding, or any combination of these things.

You can upholster the 2x4s to match, but I didn’t care that much since you can’t see them.

Door decor

                I wanted to make a tulle wreath for Halloween. I started to, and then I decided that I hated it so I trimmed off all the “fluff”. Surprisingly, I actually kind of like the “hair-cut” version; I like the thin stripes on top and the thick ones on bottom. The whole process was easy and took about an hour and a half in front of the television, so I decided on a photo tutorial for anyone who is interested. And I apologize about the final pictures, I realize the shadows are horrible! Enjoy.

*Edit: The picture only shows one roll of black tulle, but I used three. The pattern is four pieces of black tulle, one green, four black, one orange, lather, rinse, repeat. : )

A place for everything

 When we moved in here 4 months ago, the pantry had been converted into an awkwardly-placed closet. Someone took out all the shelves and added a bar to hang coats on. Since we have a nice, little foyer for our coats and shoes (stay tuned for the renovation pictures of that!), I knew this strange, misplaced little closet would have to be changed back into a pantry. In the chaos of moving in, I put a metal bookcase-like rack in the closet. In the subsequent months, it was completely overflown with miscellaneous stuff that wouldn’t fit in the cabinets. Enough was enough.

                Here is my $9.00 DIY shelving:

                First, whoever took out the original shelves had left in the siding that held them up. Weird, right? So I measured all the way across the back (30 inches) and up the side to the length I wanted (18 inches).

                Jason and I set out for Home Depot, where the nice people there cut a piece of plywood into five 18x30 inch rectangles for me. The plywood cost $8.00 and the cutting cost $1.00 (they charge after the first 2 cuts – still, for $0.25 a cut, it was well worth it!). So we had spent $9.00.

                When I got home, I put the shelves in and they fit perfectly but… Well, they were ugly. So I went to my fabric stash and found some extra fabric, I pulled out my hot glue gun and I went at it.

                First, I lay the fabric on the board. Then I pulled it under the ledge and glued it on. Then I pulled it tight and glued it to the opposite side. Finally, I glued the sides. Easy peasy.

Half-way done!

                

                 I put all the shelves in place. I used all different fabrics because 1) it’s what I had laying around and 2) I just like how bright it is this way. You could even sew together a few fabrics if you don’t have one piece that’s big enough.

                I went into my craft room and dug out some wooden letters from our wedding. I glued them to the front of the shelves accordingly .Voila, a completely organized, new, pretty, inexpensive pantry!

 I did not nail the shelves to the ledges at all so I can take them out and recover them if I get bored of the fabric. I also put our board games on the floor under the bottom shelf so they’re out of the way yet handy when we want them.

 All finished, with most of the food back in.

                I didn’t think to take a “before” picture, mainly because I didn’t expect to like it this much. It definitely suits our life much better – Jason can’t complain that he can’t find anything anymore.

But, what do you think?

Close-up of the baking shelf.

A picture for a thousand words

I love pictures.

Jason and I are in a stage in our lives that I don't want to forget: the "just us" stage. The stage where our lives revolve around our relationship, the stage where we selfishly sleep through the night every single night, the stage where I have my own craft room. I want to remember this because it's as much part of our history as the time we have children will be. I also think this is an important stage for a very different reason; my parents had a shotgun wedding when my mother found out she was pregnant with me. They were young parents and often left me with the feeling that they did not care much for each other, and as a result I spent most of my childhood feeling guilty for them needing to be together. (As an adult, I can now look back and see that it was much more complicated than this.) It is important for children to know that their married parents love each other*, and I intend to show my children what my life was like before them. I want them to know that we had a great relationship before we willfully, happily, impatiently entered parenthood. I hope these anniversary pictures will add to that lesson for them.

*I am not trying to dig at single or divorced parents. In fact, Will Smith wrote a letter (in the form of a song) to his son; he says that, "Things didn't work out with me and your mom but push comes to shove, you were conceived in love." My point is not that the parents need to always remain in love, but a lot of people talk about how their children are the loves of their lives and how much they adore them. While this may be true, I think it can lead people to think that getting married and having children is the only way to know true happiness. I want my children to know there was a time before them (and there will be a time when they're grown) when we were happy and in love and our lives were perfect. I want them to know that even though we found happiness through marriage and a family, there are other routes, other options, other forms of happiness. I do not want my children to feel pushed along the traditional road if they don't want to go that way. There are a lot of reasons we take these pictures. Those are just a few.


Without further adieu, here are some pictures!

A Nutshell

It occurred to me that some readers may enjoy a little information on me to help clarify some of my posts. Here’s a little thing I whipped together:

My name is Jessica. My friends call me “Jess”, but most of my family calls me “Jessi”. I’m not sure why, I guess because it’s more fitting for a child and when you watch someone grow up with one name, it’s hard to change to another.

My husband’s name is Jason. He is a software engineer (he works with computers). He is 28 and has 2 undergraduate degrees (Psychology and Computer Engineering) and he is working on his Master’s degree in Computer Science. He also works full-time so he is very busy and I don’t get to see enough of him.

I grew up in Boston. I left when I was 18 to attend college in Michigan. I am 23.

I am lactose intolerant.

I have been married for just more than a year (not even 13 months yet)! It has absolutely flown by.

I live in Dayton, OH with my husband. We chose to live here because it is close to his family.

I have 2 brothers and 2 sisters, all of whom are younger than me.

I love to have my picture taken. Unfortunately for me, my husband hates having to drag out the camera. We have professional pictures taken every year, so I’ll post some of those when we get them back in a few days.

I am terrified of balloons being near my face. I have to close my eyes and put my hand over them in order to blow one up for a party. (Consequently, this chore is not usually given to me.) When I was  little, I was chewing on a balloon when it popped in my face and a piece cut my eye and I needed surgery. As long as I can remember, I’ve been afraid of them.

Those are some tidbits from my nutshell. Stay tuned.